Giving a toast is the responsibility to speak to his girlfriend the fear in the hearts of the majority of the members. Even though it's not usually something very long or this is involved, in the public (that not good, many people feel) and they are actually people in their place.
If you are planning a wedding and know more than the marriage is a member of the human rights, which are then not among all "rhetoric," by all means the traditional Roast with dad stop, the best people and others who have their expected turns at the microphone.
But when looking for something else, it is you, because you want to keep the people on the ground, or just something different and fun, want to read to do.
Initially without a doubt, the whole calendar have a toast upon request. There is no rule, the toast at a wedding. Marriage should be a one-time event and reflects the personality of the bride and groom.
But if you want to do something else, there are options. Go to the path of the videos where people basically have a toast with a camcorder and give the bride and groom later more. This is not a unique idea, but does not solve the problem to local people and everyone is the possibility, say something special for the bride and groom.
If as people many reviews the list of mic pass "." This can work in different ways. She can with him stupid or extremely serious. Most people as ridiculous. He said that he enjoyed the microphone first. Her last name ends with T (hence the name of Smith's father). I had to find someone with a name starting with the first T (Tom? do Tony?) Would Tina? Theresa?) and the man, who then gave to the microphone a toast.
This method returns a roast people created (of course before you begin Please warn, that can really be uncomfortable, flee in WC or bar) but can be fun. People make when you expect the least, it that he asked her, remember something funny or mean with the bride and groom may lead to interesting, funny and honest results.
You can also choose that one person at each table will be asked to make a toast. The number of tables, and at different times have numbers MC or DJ that will take guests on a table between them to decide who it will be, a toast on the table. More than one person can be natural, as they wish, but it is likely that at least a ham on each table, which enjoy permanent and newlyweds.
It allows a great orator in the Group and find that the participants ready to roast would be a problem. But don't you think that they might be. There is a simple solution to this problem. You can open the topic for speaker. Say offer toast set "open mic", where a person for the microphone questions and offers a toast. DJ, MC, or others in the wedding party (perhaps an accompaniment or best male) speakers offer a surprising argument, from champagne or a bouquet of flowers on the head of the table can be pulled. There may be a piece of paper to choose from, or simply a piece of paper with some ideas.
Speakers can decide to complete this sentence "I remember when (female name) is still small, always..." or "answer to this question, if the (insert name of the bride here) is more stupid?" The story "." It may be necessary to give each speaker in one or two minutes to gather his thoughts, but I do certainly some interesting stories, some stories are unique and some different perspectives on the bride and groom.